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Cremation for my Mum Maureen Stanley

Cremation for my Mum Maureen Stanley

Funds Raised:
R 18 370
Fundraising Target:
R 22 000

Personal message

Good day all, my darling mum, Maureen, 75 years of age passed away quite unexpectedly at Leratong Hospital in Krugersdorp.  The ambulance and staff were amazing. We are still reeling at the news that she is gone. 
 
My most immediate issue now is to Raise funds for thee most basic cremation service available, called a direction cremation or silent cremation. Which doesn't involve any guests. Even this, the lowest of their options Is unaffordable to me at this time.  We are looking at the range of R12500 upwards. Excluding other unforeseen expenses that may incur, price was given for the average size person, mum was deemed overweight when entering casualties. The mortuary also charges storage fees of around R300 per day, and as it has been a weekend and now public holidays those fees are adding to the debt also.  There are also fees for 3 doctors to examine her I'm told, transport etc. etc. I run two businesses, my main business is struggling, Dec and most of Jan are bad months for me.  
 
I just want to do right by my mum and have her cremated.  Please please help me it you can. Every tiny amounts add up.  My credit cards are almost maxed in just getting us through Dec and Jan.  Plus then there would be the huge repayment every month also.  I have also sold off all my furniture worthy anything and house hold goods of any value. I am truly stuck.  Any help or leads for my business would be appreciated so so much, I do generic printer cartridges. Mum was my rock and my whole world and best friend.  She lived with me for the past year and a bit. I just want to honor her and carry out her final requests.  Please please help me to do that for her?  We were selling off our things each month to get by but we had each other. 

She used to tell me that the "first" of everything when someone passes is the hardest, she was right, this was the hardest Christmas ever..... Such a wise, kind and loving mum. 

Donations

  • Jan 02, 2024 - R 199.91 Fees covered
  • "Dear Ashley, I had the privilege of meeting your beautiful mum, please accept my condolences on her passing. Take comfort in knowing that many are thinking of you. Philippians 4 : 6,7" - DawnL

  • Dec 31, 2023 - USD $ 29.52 Fees covered
  • "" - Anonymous

  • Dec 29, 2023 - USD $ 58.13 Fees covered
  • "Sending condolences at this difficult time xxx" - Helen Capps

  • Dec 27, 2023 - USD $ 57.64 Fees covered
  • "" - Anonymous

  • Dec 27, 2023 - USD $ 28.82 Fees covered
  • "Thinking of you at this difficult time xx" - Helen

  • Dec 26, 2023 - USD $ 10.81 Fees covered
  • "" - Anonymous

  • Dec 26, 2023 - USD $ 54.03 Fees covered
  • "I was so sorry to hear about your mum’s passing Ash, and the financial problems you’ve been having. I hope this little contribution will help. Thinking of you and sending my love x" - Rachel Wigmore

  • Dec 26, 2023 - USD $ 108.05 Fees covered
  • "" - Laura Clarke

  • Dec 26, 2023 - USD $ 58.59 Fees covered
  • "Our deepest condolences to you and the family on the loss of your mother and our dear friend. As Mo would say, ‘gone but not forgotten’." - Lally Family

  • Dec 26, 2023 - USD $ 54.03 Fees covered
  • "Ashleigh, I am so sorry to hear of your mums passing. I remember when she worked at the Veterinary back in Zim. So sorry love." - Nancy Mashongamhende

  • Dec 26, 2023 - USD $ 162.67
  • "Wish we were closer at times like this 💕" - Nicky

  • Dec 26, 2023 - USD $ 5.86 Fees covered
  • "My heart is with you Ash" - Mel

  • Dec 26, 2023 - USD $ 29.29 Fees covered
  • "" - Anonymous

  • Dec 26, 2023 - USD $ 29.29 Fees covered
  • "So sorry Ash. Sending love" - Nix

  • Dec 26, 2023 - USD $ 17.58 Fees covered
  • "" - Anonymous

  • Dec 26, 2023 - USD $ 54.03 Fees covered
  • "Ash, thinking of you at this time. Sending love." - Neilan

  • Dec 26, 2023 - USD $ 58.59 Fees covered
  • "Thinking of you Ash during this very hard time..." - Amanda

  • Dec 26, 2023 - USD $ 29.29 Fees covered
  • "Deepest condolences" - Samuel Hasson

  • Dec 26, 2023 - USD $ 87.88 Fees covered
  • "Ash, you have our support and deepest sympathies xx" - Al & Verne

  • Dec 26, 2023 - USD $ 58.59 Fees covered
  • "Sending love and prayers, so sorry you are having to struggle so much…Thinking of you." - Karen Jo

  • Dec 26, 2023 - USD $ 117.18 Fees covered
  • "Dear Ash Sending you all the love in the world in this very hard time. I am thinking of you from afar.. things are tough now but you will pull through.. your mum is so proud of you. Sending love from Australia" - Ashley Whiting

Statistics

Fundraising target

R 22 000.00

Donations to date

R 18 370.00

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