
Help us realize Our Family Dreams
- By: Martin Ntsane
- Short URL: https://archive.backabuddy.co.za/martin-ntsane-5804569024975444298
- Date Created: 7 January 2024
Personal message
Currently staying 1000 kilos away from my Wife and kids due to Employment commitments. I pray for the day when I'm able to stay with them again, permanently so, because there's nothing more painful than having your kids grow without you, even with all the financial support you may consistently provide, and worse staying so far away from your soulmate all because you want nothing better than a better life for them.
I have so many dreams it feels like I'm Martin Luther-King's offspring times 99. Well of course I couldn't possibly list them all here but only a handful few; finished paying lobola but still have a dream of affording a Western Wedding ceremony/celebration, finish incomplete LLB studies (Owe UFS about R24 000 or so in tuition fees), finish Higher Certificate in Banking (Owe UNISA about R9 500 or so), study Information Technology, get my daughter into a good boarding school closer to me (who consistently gets level 7s only), pay off all my debt (which all amounts to R96 000 or so including the two Universities mentioned) and buy a car both for me this side and my wife more importantly because of the kids for ease of travel even in times of emergencies (previously got my Wife a license and car for this reason, but she unfortunately lost the car in an accident going to pick me up on arrival from Cape Town during December Festive and Christmas holidays, she had to cancel insurance few months before due to affordability), clear mine and her Credit scores (hers amounts to R200 000 because of the lost vehicle), work towards qualifying for a bond for our kids to have a place they can call home, get a Bakkie for business purposes, etc. etc.
Every penny, every dollar or rand, will be highly appreciated and will bring us closer to realizing all of these dreams, but more especially allow for us to stay under one roof again, permanently so, I would love nothing more than to raise my own kids myself and stay with my soulmate. I will prefer the donation funds to be used for transfers directly into the said institutions' accounts and not my private accounts, that's how seriously and legitimately in need I am right now.
Your help will not go unnoticed, and I hope and pray that I will also be in a position to give back to someone else in need in the future, extending the same kindness and more.
Bless You all!!!