Hope in the Darkness
- By: Emmerentia Fillies
- Short URL: https://archive.backabuddy.co.za/ian-fillies-5833706299917832127
- Date Created: 10 February 2024
Personal message
In the heart of Mitchells Plain, a close-knit community, lived Ian James Fillies—a man whose infectious laughter once echoed through every corner, bringing smiles to those around him. But beneath his jovial facade lay a battle unseen, a struggle with the depths of major depression that consumed him whole.
Ian's journey was one marked by highs and lows, but through it all, his two young children remained his beacon of light—their laughter, their innocence, a reminder of the beauty that still existed in his world.
Yet, on the 8th of February 2024, the weight of Ian's burdens became too heavy to bear. In a moment of despair, he made the tragic decision to end his own life, leaving behind a shattered family, engulfed in grief and grappling with the harsh reality of their loss. As news of Ian's passing spread throughout the community, an outpouring of sorrow and disbelief swept through the streets of Mitchells Plain.
We as family, devastated by the loss of our beloved son, brother, and friend, we find ourselves facing yet another challenge.
Friends, family, and kind hearts.....
We come to you today with heavy hearts, seeking your support as we honor the life and memory of our beloved Ian James Fillies. Unfortunately, his sudden departure has left us reeling, not just emotionally, but also financially.
Ian always had a heart of gold, ready to lend a helping hand to anyone in need. Now, as we prepare to bid him farewell, we're reaching out to our community, our extended family, for assistance in ensuring he receives the dignified farewell he deserves.
Your contribution will go towards arranging a fitting funeral and memorial service, a celebration of Ian’s beautiful life and the countless lives he touched. From honoring his favorite hymns to sharing cherished memories, every detail will reflect the essence of his spirit.
We understand that times are tough for many, and any amount you can give, whether big or small, will be immensely appreciated. Your generosity will not only help alleviate the financial burden on Ian’s loved ones but also ensure that he is honored with the respect and love he deserves.
Let's come together, just as Ian would have wanted, to support his final journey and to keep his memory alive in our hearts forever.
With heartfelt gratitude,
Emma and the Fillies Family
Donations
- Feb 27, 2024 - R 1 000.00 Fees covered
- "โฅ๏ธ๐ท๐" - Anonymous
- Feb 26, 2024 - R 1 000.00 Fees covered
- "" - Anonymous
- Feb 24, 2024 - R 200.00 Fees covered
- "โค๏ธ" - Hayley
- Feb 21, 2024 - R 200.00 Fees covered
- "Just something small" - Tara
- Feb 20, 2024 - USD $ 7.94
- "Condolences to you and your family, we pray the lord make it easier in time" - Anonymous
- Feb 18, 2024 - R 300.00 Fees covered
- "May God grant you strength and comfort during this time Em and family." - C & A
- Feb 16, 2024 - R 300.00 Fees covered
- "" - Busiswa
- Feb 14, 2024 - R 200.00 Fees covered
- "My deepest sympathy Emma.My thoughts and prayers are with u at this difficult time๐โค๏ธ" - Anonymous
- Feb 13, 2024 - USD $ 26.43
- "My condolences emma to you and your family, may he rest in peace ๐ . I'm so sorry for your loss" - Nazley
- Feb 13, 2024 - R 500.00
- "Condolences to you and your family during this time of bereavement. A&N" - Anonymous
- Feb 12, 2024 - R 200.00 Fees covered
- "" - Anonymous
- Feb 12, 2024 - R 100.00 Fees covered
- "Condolences to the family." - Anonymous
- Feb 12, 2024 - R 925.50 Fees covered
- "Shared joy = double the joy, shared pain = half the pain. Condolences to the family and friends of the deceased. Love to Emma, Elijah and the balance of all who mourn the loss of the late Mr. Fielies. Best, your biker indeed thatโs a friend in need." - IHM
- Feb 11, 2024 - R 300.00 Fees covered
- "I pray for healing and peace.I pray you feel surrounded by much love.We are so sorry for your loss.We are thinking of you during these difficult times." - Anonymous
- Feb 11, 2024 - R 100.00
- "I pray for you and your family during this time of bereavement." - Anonymous
- Feb 11, 2024 - R 200.00 Fees covered
- "Loss is a grief so tough no one should carry it alone. We might not speak often but I still hold you so dear. My friend Emma and the Fillies family I will continue keeping you in my prayers ๐โค" - Odile
- Feb 10, 2024 - R 500.00
- "Thinking of you Emma" - Tarryn Taylor
- Feb 10, 2024 - R 500.00
- "Rest In Peace Ian ๐" - Jade Hazel
- Feb 10, 2024 - R 100.00
- "Condolences to the Fillies family. May his soul RIP" - Octavia
- Feb 10, 2024 - R 150.00 Fees covered
- "" - Anonymous
- Feb 10, 2024 - R 84.00 Fees covered
- "May his soul RIP" - Anonymous
- Feb 10, 2024 - R 1 000.00 Fees covered
- "My heartfelt condolences to you and your Family Emma๐๐" - Dionne
- Feb 10, 2024 - R 200.00 Fees covered
- "My condolences to Emma, Naf and the Fillies fam." - Candice
- Feb 10, 2024 - R 500.00 Fees covered
- "May his soul RIP" - Anonymous